The Secret Skill Every Performer Needs
In today’s Industry Pro Series, Nelson Paredez-Parks teaches the most valuable skill your child needs:
Flexibility!
In the world of child acting, one of the most valuable skills a young performer can develop is flexibility. Not just the physical kind, but the mental and emotional adaptability that helps them navigate the ever-changing landscape of auditions, sets, and schedules. For parents, encouraging this kind of flexibility can make a huge difference in their young performer’s experience.
First, it’s about mindset. Kids and teens who learn to see changes—like a last-minute script revision or a sudden schedule shift—as just part of the adventure tend to handle the ups and downs of the industry with more ease. Parents can help by modeling a positive attitude toward change and encourage their kids/teens to see each new situation as a learning opportunity.
Secondly, it’s about preparation. Teaching your young actor some simple relaxation techniques or quick problem-solving exercises can help them adapt on the fly. The more they practice rolling with the punches, the more resilient they become…this is where a great improv class will help them think on the fly.
Finally, flexibility is also about communication. Encouraging young performers to express how they feel about changes will help them feel heard and supported, and it will teach them to be an adaptable team player on set.
In short, by nurturing flexibility, you’re giving your young actor a lifelong skill that goes way beyond acting. It’s a gift that will serve them well in any walk of life.
Your Getting-Connected Mindset Coach,
Nelson Paredez-Parks
Founder of The ESI Network
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