How Can I Best Support My Young Child (<5) During Auditions, with Casting, and on Set?
In today’s Industry Pro Series, Jenn Boyce breaks down how to be there for your child on set and help them navigate this industry, without being too overbearing.
Hey Parents!
This month’s Ask an Agent question is such an important one: How do I “behave” in the most helpful, unobtrusive way when my young child still really needs me?
When your child is under 5, you’re not just the parent — you’re the safe space, the snack packer, the emotional support team, and their biggest cheerleader. But at the same time, you’re also expected to be professional and low-key. Here are some quick tips to help you strike the right balance:
✅ Be their calm.
Your child takes their cues from you. If you’re anxious or tense, they’ll feel it. Stay grounded, warm, and upbeat. That energy makes a huge difference and helps your child feel safe and confident walking into the room.
✅ Stay out of the way—but stay close.
Casting, Agents, and crew are looking for parents who are supportive and professional. That means staying nearby, but not inserting yourself unless asked. You’re part of the team—but not the star of the show.
✅ Keep the communication simple and respectful.
Whether you’re emailing Casting or chatting with an Agent, short and sweet goes a long way. No oversharing or long backstories—just the info they need, with a kind, respectful tone. It shows you get how the business works.
✅ Pack like a pro.
Snacks, water, wipes, a favorite stuffy, a tablet with headphones—have it all ready. A well-packed bag can mean the difference between a happy little actor and a meltdown. And yes, people do notice which parents come prepared.
✅ Advocate without overstepping.
If something doesn’t feel right—say something, but say it the right way. Always let your Agent know first. That’s what you pay them for, and they’re the ones who should handle any issues with Casting, Directors, or Producers. On set, you can also talk to the set teacher (who also acts as the social worker). They’re there to support and protect your child, too. You can be protective and professional — those things absolutely go together.
At this age, you’re part of the package. When you show up prepared, grounded, and respectful, you not only support your child — you earn the trust of everyone around them.
Your Hollywood Guide,
Jenn Boyce
Creator of The Hollywood Prep
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