Do’s & Don'ts for Parents on Set with Their Child Actor
After 30 years as a Talent Agent in Hollywood, working with actors like Paul Rudd, Jessica Biel, and Shailene Woodley, Jenn Boyce has seen it all. This blog is your go-to spot for real talk about the dos and don’ts of showbiz parenting. Each month, she will tackle a new topic to help you and your young star shine—both on and off the set.
Do’s & Don'ts for Parents on Set with Their Child Actor
Shut Up and Wear Beige
I know, it sounds a bit cheeky, but here’s the deal: your main role on set is to support your child, not to steal the spotlight. Think of yourself as part of the background—there to ensure your child is okay, but not to network or make new friends. Overstepping can inadvertently impact your child’s future opportunities. Remember, a parent’s behavior can leave a lasting impression on the Director, Producer, and Casting Director. You definitely don’t want to be that parent—the one everyone remembers for all the wrong reasons.
Understanding the Rules
Navigating the maze of work permits and on-set regulations can be overwhelming. Thankfully, the Minor Performer Alliance offers a comprehensive resource detailing all the essentials. They provide guidance on obtaining work permits and understanding the specific rules that apply while on set. Familiarizing yourself with these guidelines ensures you’re well-prepared and demonstrates your commitment to your child’s professional journey.
Bring Your Own Entertainment
Let’s be real—being on set can involve a lot of waiting around. While your child might be occupied with rehearsals or schooling, your role is to be present and supportive. However, it’s important to balance being available with giving your child space to focus. Bringing along a good book, some knitting, or even catching up on emails can help you stay engaged without becoming a distraction. Keeping yourself occupied not only makes the time pass faster but also helps you stay relaxed and ready to support your child when needed.
Remember, this journey is a partnership. By embracing these insights, you’re setting the stage for a positive and successful experience in the entertainment industry for your child.
Your Hollywood Guide,
Jenn Boyce
Creator of The Hollywood Prep
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